Aug. 10th, 2022 12:43 pm
Big Hot Gay Summer: The Also-Rans
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muckefuckNaturally, I didn't end up with my three contenders from a field of three. Here's a sampling of some of the other men I've met who just didn't quite grab me.
We'll start with Courteous Will. I chatted him up at 2Bears the weekend we celebrated BB's birthday and we ended up hooking up a couple times, but--for various reasons--it never progressed beyond that. One reason is, of course, that I was still very much hung up on BB back then and it rather muted my eagerness to start something else, even just a fuckbuddy arrangement. On top of that, I felt like I was chasing him too much. In person, he'd appear interested in getting together, but then he'd never text me to arrange anything. (Hmm...that's sounding familiar...) But, basically, though the sex was good, there just wasn't a spark.
Then there's RG from KC. We met at a street fair back in May and seemed to hit it off. He was interested in having me fist him and I was interested in giving that a go, since I've never done it before--I even cut my nails on one hand to show that I was serious--but somehow it never happened. Getting COVID in early June got in the way, as did the fact that he was trying to quit drinking so I didn't feel right inviting him out to bars or over for cocktails. But in the end, it was just a lack of interest on both our parts that doomed this, I guess.
I met the Cuboricua Furball on the beach along with a passel of cute Latines and, despite having a boyfriend, he started sporadically texting me. It's all very innocuous so I can't quite tell what his angle is--just bored and looking for a little attention but willing to play sometime? Worth cultivating for a bit to see what, if anything, develops.
Who else? Various other randos from bars and parties, most younger than me. I met someone at a party July 4th weekend who seemed really into me, so I spent about two weeks trying to get him to commit to something before I just gave up. Shortly before that,clintswan and I met a cutie at Anvil who seemed down to clown. One night I texted him on a whim and he was very flirty but there's been no follow-up since.
We'll start with Courteous Will. I chatted him up at 2Bears the weekend we celebrated BB's birthday and we ended up hooking up a couple times, but--for various reasons--it never progressed beyond that. One reason is, of course, that I was still very much hung up on BB back then and it rather muted my eagerness to start something else, even just a fuckbuddy arrangement. On top of that, I felt like I was chasing him too much. In person, he'd appear interested in getting together, but then he'd never text me to arrange anything. (Hmm...that's sounding familiar...) But, basically, though the sex was good, there just wasn't a spark.
Then there's RG from KC. We met at a street fair back in May and seemed to hit it off. He was interested in having me fist him and I was interested in giving that a go, since I've never done it before--I even cut my nails on one hand to show that I was serious--but somehow it never happened. Getting COVID in early June got in the way, as did the fact that he was trying to quit drinking so I didn't feel right inviting him out to bars or over for cocktails. But in the end, it was just a lack of interest on both our parts that doomed this, I guess.
I met the Cuboricua Furball on the beach along with a passel of cute Latines and, despite having a boyfriend, he started sporadically texting me. It's all very innocuous so I can't quite tell what his angle is--just bored and looking for a little attention but willing to play sometime? Worth cultivating for a bit to see what, if anything, develops.
Who else? Various other randos from bars and parties, most younger than me. I met someone at a party July 4th weekend who seemed really into me, so I spent about two weeks trying to get him to commit to something before I just gave up. Shortly before that,
clintswan and I met a cutie at Anvil who seemed down to clown. One night I texted him on a whim and he was very flirty but there's been no follow-up since.Tags: