Jun. 15th, 2020 06:30 pm
A chance to breathe
Today on a Zoom call with several colleagues, one of them referred to the situation as "post-pandemic" and I quickly jumped it to remind him that we are still "mid-pandemic" and that meeting face-to-face was simply not in the cards for the foreseeable.
Maybe someone should have reminded me of this yesterday before I went out to the parking pad to day drink with the neighbours. I did my best to keep my distance, but I doubt that's very effective when everyone is serving themselves from the same vessels. We had wipes and sanitiser (including the coveted Malört variant) and used them liberally, but at some point is occurred to me that dishes on the central table were collecting everyone's airborne droplets anyway. One of the organisers kept touting the fact that all of the households present had been self-isolating since the start of the pandemic and was entirely asymptomatic. And though that's reassuring, it's far from a guarantee.
So it was a calculated risk, an attempt to balance self-preservation with everyone's natural need for some human contact. Two of us, if we hadn't've been there, would've likely attended the Drag Queen March for Black Lives Matter in Boystown. That also would've been a calculated risk, slightly increasing the risk of transmission (the demos here have been quite good about enforcing distance and mask use) in the name of promoting social justice.
There was a social justice aspect to our get-together, too. The idea was proposed by Big Mike, who lives across the alley, and was originally supposed to include a book exchange. The book he brought was titled Black rage, so that gives some idea of his perspective. The death of George Floyd affected him very personally. A couple weeks ago, he was hollering off his balcony in the middle of the night until the cops came. I slept through it; one of my immediate neighbours went out to keep and eye on the situation. When he called out to ask how Big Mike was doing, he replied, "I'M HURTING, MAN!"
So it really felt like an invitation I couldn't refuse, even if, in the end, it was more about creating a sense of normalcy and community than getting into root causes and remedies. Not to minimise the importance of either: I think of what might've happened to Big Mike the other night if he hadn't built the kind of relationships that bring your neighbours out at 4 a.m. to check on you and it chills me.
Maybe someone should have reminded me of this yesterday before I went out to the parking pad to day drink with the neighbours. I did my best to keep my distance, but I doubt that's very effective when everyone is serving themselves from the same vessels. We had wipes and sanitiser (including the coveted Malört variant) and used them liberally, but at some point is occurred to me that dishes on the central table were collecting everyone's airborne droplets anyway. One of the organisers kept touting the fact that all of the households present had been self-isolating since the start of the pandemic and was entirely asymptomatic. And though that's reassuring, it's far from a guarantee.
So it was a calculated risk, an attempt to balance self-preservation with everyone's natural need for some human contact. Two of us, if we hadn't've been there, would've likely attended the Drag Queen March for Black Lives Matter in Boystown. That also would've been a calculated risk, slightly increasing the risk of transmission (the demos here have been quite good about enforcing distance and mask use) in the name of promoting social justice.
There was a social justice aspect to our get-together, too. The idea was proposed by Big Mike, who lives across the alley, and was originally supposed to include a book exchange. The book he brought was titled Black rage, so that gives some idea of his perspective. The death of George Floyd affected him very personally. A couple weeks ago, he was hollering off his balcony in the middle of the night until the cops came. I slept through it; one of my immediate neighbours went out to keep and eye on the situation. When he called out to ask how Big Mike was doing, he replied, "I'M HURTING, MAN!"
So it really felt like an invitation I couldn't refuse, even if, in the end, it was more about creating a sense of normalcy and community than getting into root causes and remedies. Not to minimise the importance of either: I think of what might've happened to Big Mike the other night if he hadn't built the kind of relationships that bring your neighbours out at 4 a.m. to check on you and it chills me.