Selective intolerance

[muckefuck]

So for days I've been mulling a rant in response to this open letter chastising those who called for the resignation of Brendan Eich and warning of the dire consequences of this kind of "intolerance". (I don't know about you, but I'm getting pretty sick of being called "intolerant" for not particularly caring that an anti-gay millionaire lost his job for badly handling his first PR crisis as CEO.) Now, thanks to Donald Sterling, I don't have to.

I do wonder if I'm guilty of a false equivalence here, but to the degree the cases aren't comparable, I think they actually favour Sterling. After all, his remarks were private and involved only private affairs (i.e. who his girlfriend should associate with). Eich's donation was public and had the political aim of depriving others of their civil rights (unconstitutionally, as it turns out). David Badash spells it all out pretty clearly I think. Perhaps I'm missing something, though, so I'm hoping one of the signatories comes forward to take and defend a stand on Sterling so I can pick through their justification.

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[ursine1.livejournal.com]

"I don't think people should be required to offer services they have strong moral objections to, and … that religious objections in particular get a wide berth."

So that "wide berth" would extend to parents of a young child with DM I who refuse to allow treatment on religious grounds and relying on their "strength of prayer" to cure the DM I? And when the parents prayers "aren't strong enough" forces their child to endure a prolonged, painful, untimely death that could have been avoided. After all the child is the parents personal property with which they can do whatever they please.

Chuck

[muckefuck.livejournal.com]

That comes across pretty hostile for a question posed in good faith, Chuck. Please try not to put words in anyone else's mouth. (No one has said anything about children being "parents' personal property".)

[ursine1.livejournal.com]

Indeed, until children are of the age of majority, they are considered property of their parents. One can get a court order to change the situation, depending on circumstances. Historically, wives were considered the property of their husbands, but of course that has changed.

Chuck

[muckefuck.livejournal.com]

Do you have a legal citation for that? I know a lot of people believe it to be true, but that doesn't make it so.

To point up only one major difference: I'm allowed to euthanise a pet I own as long as I do it humanely. I'm not aware that the state places any burden on me to prove that the euthanisation was "medically necessary" or "in the best interests of the animal" or anything of that sort. I don't have the same broad rights with regard to my children (unless I'm Belgian, that is).

[lhn.livejournal.com]

So that "wide berth" would extend to parents of a young child with DM I who refuse to allow treatment on religious grounds and relying on their "strength of prayer" to cure the DM I?

In the 80s, there was a case where that happened (which may be what you're referencing). The legal determination at the time was that the parents weren't guilty of homicide, but they were held to be civilly liable (with a $5.2 million award to the noncustodial parent who'd opposed the decision.)

As I said, freedom of religion isn't the only principle in the world, and neither are parental rights to make decisions regarding their kids. We let, e.g., Amish parents take their kids out of school at 13, even though mainstream culture generally regards that as harmful to their future prospects. We don't let parents sacrifice their children to Moloch. Corporal punishment is legal, but only up to the point it becomes child abuse.

Honestly, if it were my decision, I'd probably put the decision not to treat a diabetic kid with insulin as closer to sacrificing him to Moloch. Whether or not I'd jail them after the fact, I'd be sympathetic to a court order to treat him which, if disobeyed, would cost them custody. (Though in practice, they might just flee the jurisdiction, so I don't know how much good it would do.)

But the line between parental autonomy in medical and religious matters and state intervention has to be somewhere, and wherever it's drawn it's going to result in bad cases and harm in one direction or the other. There's a reason for the adage "hard cases make bad law". Given the many times facially neutral laws have historically been used as cover for religious persecution, I can understand why the law has developed in the direction it has.

[ursine1.livejournal.com]

Actually there was a recent case in Idaho, where a child with DM I died because of lack of treatment. Their "minister" told the parents to "pray away the diabetes", which of course did not work. The parents were brought up on charges on child endangerment for failure to provide/allow treatment. They were convicted.

Chuck

[lhn.livejournal.com]

I'm not finding that one, though I may just be missing it. This news article from last November indicates that Idaho has specific laws shielding parents in faith healing cases. This one from January indicates that there's a move to modify that in the wake of recent child deaths, following a tightening of the law in neighboring Oregon. (Where a couple was sentenced for manslaughter for failing to seek treatment for their son.)

[ursine1.livejournal.com]

Faith healing is widely practiced by Christian Scientists, Pentecostalists, the Church of the First Born, the Followers of Christ, and smaller sects. Many of these believers reject all medical treatment in favor of prayer, anointing with oils, and sometimes exorcisms. Some even deny the reality of illness. When they reject medical treatment for their children, they may be guilty of negligence and homicide. Until recently, religious shield laws have protected them from prosecution; but the laws are changing, as are public attitudes. Freedom of religion has come into conflict with the duty of society to protect children. The right to believe does not extend to the right to endanger the lives of children.

The faith healing sects truly believe they are doing the right thing when they let their children die; they accept it as God’s will. Some believers even refuse to wear seat belts. Their inconsistent behavior shows that they tend not to have thought things through very carefully. They hypocritically accept care from eye doctors and dentists. Adults often clandestinely seek medical care for both major and minor medical problems while children don’t have that option. In some cases parents saw a doctor for hangnails or mole removal for themselves yet refused to take their child to a doctor for a fatal illness.

Their beliefs come from groupthink and social consensus rather than from reasoned theology or the Bible. Many of them have not read the Bible; when a whistle blower did, he was surprised to learn how much it differed from what he had been taught. They have a supportive, close-knit community and face overwhelming peer pressure. If they resort to medical care, they are shunned by everyone they know and may never see anyone in their family again.

Confirmation bias is a powerful thing, and when a child dies, the death is considered unavoidable and is attributed to God’s will.

I take it that neither you nor "muckefuck" have had children. I have two children plus two grandchildren and this "colors" how I react to this subject. Likewise, I don't want someone telling me what I can or cannot do with my own body, but children must be protected from abusers, sadists and psychos.

More on this subject here: http://www.sciencebasedmedicine.org/faith-healing-religious-freedom-vs-child-protection/

Related to this is corporal punishment. This is legal as long as it does not produce serious/fatal injury. A recent case involved a father who beat his 6-week-old child with a wooden dowel. He was told by his "minister" that this should be done "until it hurt." The court and jury disagreed. Incidentally, the use of the dowel did not stop the infant from crying, but did produce serious injury.

Typical comment: "I don't think bruises are telling signs of something bad… The pain is used to tell them 'thus is serious and I need you to obey.'"

Chuck