Jul. 3rd, 2023 12:43 pm
Some fuckboi updates
Wednesday's no-show has been pestering me to give him another chance. When I initially said, "Let me think about it", he got all pissy, as if by saying that I was "questioning his character and interest". I mean...yeah? I made the date because you wanted it, but you never texted me to work out the deets, ignored a request to confirm, and ultimately blew me off. But how dare I base my opinion of you on your actions rather than, I dunno, your opinion of yourself? That probably should be my cue to bin him but for the time being I'm still keeping him in the "might be fun to fuck again sometime" category.
Thursday's sushi date went well even though he showed up half-an-hour late due to misjudging the distance via CTA. He kept me updated on his progress, however, and was extremely apologetic, going so far as to make a little bow of contrition when he arrived and thank me for waiting for him. We had a nice chat which ended with him taking back some dinner for his husband, who he brought to cocktails with him on Saturday. All-in-all, he seems worth cultivating even if we never get naked together again.
Friday our intention was to stay in, but someone who used to be a good friend and has been blowing us off for the past year actually accepted a last-minute invite to come over for a drink. When it seemed to be turning out to be just a casual hang, I invited over someone else who I've been trying to get over to my place for two months or so. He was a perfectly decent guest but it doesn't seem like he's into me at all (my friend discreetly withdrew to let us get it on only for this guy to say he was off to Cellblock), which is frustrating but not surprising at this point.
Thursday's sushi date went well even though he showed up half-an-hour late due to misjudging the distance via CTA. He kept me updated on his progress, however, and was extremely apologetic, going so far as to make a little bow of contrition when he arrived and thank me for waiting for him. We had a nice chat which ended with him taking back some dinner for his husband, who he brought to cocktails with him on Saturday. All-in-all, he seems worth cultivating even if we never get naked together again.
Friday our intention was to stay in, but someone who used to be a good friend and has been blowing us off for the past year actually accepted a last-minute invite to come over for a drink. When it seemed to be turning out to be just a casual hang, I invited over someone else who I've been trying to get over to my place for two months or so. He was a perfectly decent guest but it doesn't seem like he's into me at all (my friend discreetly withdrew to let us get it on only for this guy to say he was off to Cellblock), which is frustrating but not surprising at this point.
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