May. 7th, 2013 08:07 am
Excursus I: Niblings at home
The break-out moment for nibling cuteness came the night before I left when their parents were out and I was helping Mom watch them. OGI had had a late nap so we abandoned all hope of putting him to bed at 9 p.m. and let him watch some sparkly Disney confection until he simply gave out. Long before that happened, he paused it for some reason and I, seeing my chance, tried to think of some music video that I could play which would grab his attention while remaining within my sister's strict guidelines. I came up with this:
I forgot that doing well on this can be as bad as doing badly: naturally he wanted to watch it again and again. (The next day, I tried interspersing the OK Go video with the dogs between reps; he patiently watched it then asked for "the other one again".) The third or fourth time, IMI happened along. Now, whereas OGI still watches videos with complete and mute absorption, his older brothers have learned to be a bit more interactive. IMI didn't let the fact that he didn't actually know any words to the song stop him from singing along. I tried my best to prompt him on the "HEY!s" but he only hit them about half the time.
Actually, they all had moments of real sweetness that night. When I walked in the door, relieved to have break from entertaining my father 24/7, ECI suddenly clung to me like a limpet. He's the brightest and often most restless of the boys, but when it comes to being affectionate he really runs hot and cold. But what was übercharming was watching AWI stepping into his role as the oldest. Earlier, when they were all playing video games but AWI had already exhausted his allotted time, he instead focused on helping OGI play his. (And I mean really helping, not pretending to help while playing the game for him.) It was less charming that he kept interrupting my conversation with Mom to draw my attention to game animations, but he took it well when I told him, "You know, this is a lot less compelling than you seem to think it is."
I forgot that doing well on this can be as bad as doing badly: naturally he wanted to watch it again and again. (The next day, I tried interspersing the OK Go video with the dogs between reps; he patiently watched it then asked for "the other one again".) The third or fourth time, IMI happened along. Now, whereas OGI still watches videos with complete and mute absorption, his older brothers have learned to be a bit more interactive. IMI didn't let the fact that he didn't actually know any words to the song stop him from singing along. I tried my best to prompt him on the "HEY!s" but he only hit them about half the time.
Actually, they all had moments of real sweetness that night. When I walked in the door, relieved to have break from entertaining my father 24/7, ECI suddenly clung to me like a limpet. He's the brightest and often most restless of the boys, but when it comes to being affectionate he really runs hot and cold. But what was übercharming was watching AWI stepping into his role as the oldest. Earlier, when they were all playing video games but AWI had already exhausted his allotted time, he instead focused on helping OGI play his. (And I mean really helping, not pretending to help while playing the game for him.) It was less charming that he kept interrupting my conversation with Mom to draw my attention to game animations, but he took it well when I told him, "You know, this is a lot less compelling than you seem to think it is."