My personal stance has been and likely always will be, if straights have to put up with putting on a wedding, gays should to. I don't know why gays should get off easy.

If you need help on surviving the longer, slower, and more painful than it should be, process for getting through deciding which wedding invitations should be sent out, I'll be there for ya, though. Don't say I'm not supportive in a misery loves company sort of way. :)