I write about sex a lot, but I do it in entries that can only be read by me! :-)
And, I suppose, that's one thing one must decide about this LiveJournal format: Is it a diary that one keeps entirely for oneself? Or is it a platform for putting messages in bottles that will ultimately be read by -- well. You're never sure quite who.
I use it as both.
Narcissists get very upset when someone moves in close enough to stake a claim to their emotions. "Disinterest" can be a defense mechanism, you know. I'm not saying it was in the relationship you've described above; I'm merely pointing out that that possibility exists. It's as likely that this person felt something for you that scared the shit out of him as it is that you're the most boring, predictable person on the planet.
And oh, that career thing! Never solved that one myself. So, I spent my entire working years jumping from career to career at approximately seven year intervals.
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And, I suppose, that's one thing one must decide about this LiveJournal format: Is it a diary that one keeps entirely for oneself? Or is it a platform for putting messages in bottles that will ultimately be read by -- well. You're never sure quite who.
I use it as both.
Narcissists get very upset when someone moves in close enough to stake a claim to their emotions. "Disinterest" can be a defense mechanism, you know. I'm not saying it was in the relationship you've described above; I'm merely pointing out that that possibility exists. It's as likely that this person felt something for you that scared the shit out of him as it is that you're the most boring, predictable person on the planet.
And oh, that career thing! Never solved that one myself. So, I spent my entire working years jumping from career to career at approximately seven year intervals.